Even in the best BDSM relationships, dominants with the best slaves, submissives happy and adoring of their masters, sometimes things don't go right ...
Today we played and it didn't go right. Maybe mitda wasn't in the right frame of mind, after all she had her day put out of rhythm by emmie and I being home. She'll get used to emmie being home but the Master being home on a work day always upsets things. Anyway we played and neither of us could get properly prepped or into it. And it didn't work. She got nowhere near subspace and I got nowhere near domspace. Yes there is such a thing.
I'm still learning, and so are mitda and emmie. Perhaps I should have used my hands instead of toys, to gauge her response. But shoulds aren't the answer. We all have to continue to learn our places and each other.
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